What Positive Discipline Really Means

Based on the Positive Discipline approach by Dr. Jane Nelsen

Hi, I’m Dr. Kristi Briscoe, a pediatrician with expertise in ADHD.

Positive Discipline isn’t permissive—it’s an intentional way of parenting that teaches kids responsibility, respect, and problem-solving skills without shame or punishment. And it works especially well for kids with ADHD.

If you’d like to learn more about the Positive Discipline approach, check out Dr. Jane Nelsen’s book Positive Discipline or visit positivediscipline.com.

Here’s how to start:

1. Be kind and firm at the same time — “I love you, and the answer is no” sets boundaries with connection.
2. Focus on solutions — Ask, “What do we need to do differently next time?”
3. Model what you want to teach — Show respect to get respect.
   

Kids with ADHD need more than consequences—they need coaches. And you’re already on your way.

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This article is for educational purposes only and does not diagnose or treat any condition. Please seek help from a qualified mental health professional if you or a loved one is struggling.