Teaching Resilience: When Things Don’t Go Their Way

Hi, I’m Dr. Kristi Briscoe.
Life doesn’t always go according to plan—and that’s hard for any kid. But ADHD kids often experience disappointment more intensely. Resilience is what helps them bounce back.

Here’s how to teach it:

1. Validate the hard moment — “It’s okay to feel disappointed.”
2. Model problem-solving — “Let’s think of a new plan together.”
3. Reflect on past bounce-backs — “Remember when you didn’t get picked and tried
   again?”
   

You’re not just soothing them—you’re shaping how they handle setbacks for life.

This article is for educational purposes only and does not diagnose or treat any condition. Please seek help from a qualified mental health professional if you or a loved one is struggling.